"Crazy-making" that's how people describe involvements with those who have narcissistic or antisocial personality disorders, psychopathy, and even borderline personality disorder. After enduring deception, manipulation, bald-faced lies and gaslighting, people who are in these relationships often feel like they're losing their minds. What they need most is someone who believes their stories and can tell them what is going on. So they go for counseling. Unfortunately, many times they discover that the therapist really doesn't understand what they are talking about. Over the years, I've heard this from countless people who have been targeted by exploiters. In fact, I've heard …