About this course
Partners of people who have psychopathic or Cluster B personality patterns often have difficulties exiting these toxic relationships. This course offers therapists a structured five-step model that can be used to guide and support clients in moving through the process of leaving a psychopath, narcissist or other toxic partner, and recovering their sense of mental health and stability.
Each step in the model includes specific goals and practices for therapists to share with clients as they do the difficult work of leaving exploitive, abusive, or toxic relationships, including how to prepare clients for the sometimes dramatic elements of relationship termination with personality disordered partners.
To share this valuable information with clients, you may want to recommend that they enroll in the one-hour Five Step Exit for Survivors program.
- Why people stay in relationships, even when they know they are being abused and manipulated.
- The Five Step Exit Model, with suggested anchoring practices for each stage of change.
- How to help your client prepare to leave by addressing multiple concerns, including safety, emotional, financial, career, legal and more.
- How your client should respond if his or her partner threatens to commit suicide.
- Specific practices that will help your client’s emotional, physical and psychological recovery.
About the instructor
Amber Ault, Ph.D., MSW, is a clinical sociologist, psychotherapist, and trainer based in Madison, Wisconsin, specializing in coaching both heterosexual and LGBT partners of people with Cluster B personality patterns. Her academic areas of expertise include LGBT culture, intimate partner violence, and the history of psychiatric diagnoses; her clinical specializations include suicide risk assessment, crisis intervention, trauma treatment, and supporting partners who have survived toxic relationships. She is the author of The Wise Lesbian Guide to Getting Free From Crazy-Making Relationships and The Five Step Exit: Skills You Need to Leave a Narcissist, Psychopath, or Other Toxic Partner and Recover Your Happiness Now.
Dr. Ault has taught in the School of Social Work and in the Departments of Sociology and Gender and Women’s Studies at the University of Wisconsin-Madison. She offers on-line and on-the-ground workshops and courses in relationship recovery and LGBTQ dating and healthy relationship formation through amberault.com. She earned her Ph.D. in sociology from Ohio State University and her MSW from the University of Wisconsin. She holds a Wisconsin certified advanced practice social work license.
Cost and credits
The cost for this course is $80 for two hours of instruction. Once you purchase the course, you can view it as often as you want. There is no expiration date.
This course meets the education standards of psychology and counseling professional associations. Contact your professional association to claim credits.
No commercial support was provided to Lovefraud Continuing Education or the instructor for this program.
This workshop will enable mental health professionals to:
- Identify five challenges to relationship termination faced by partners of people with narcissistic, antisocial, and borderline personality disorders or psychopathy.
- Identify three challenges for clinicians in assessing and supporting partners of psychopaths, narcissists, and people with borderline personality disorder patterns.
- Explain the stages of the Five Step Exit model of relationship termination.
- Prepare their clients for exiting, including preparation for “No Contact,” responding to suicide threats, developing a support team, cultivating mindfulness, and ensuring personal safety.
- Identify and incorporate multi-modal, integrated recovery practices and the therapist’s role in helping clients achieve secure attachment and reduce post-traumatic syndromes following relationship dissolution.
Instruction — 55 minutes
- Working with partners — challenges for clinicians
- Why do people stay?
- What do clients want?
- Stages of change model
Break — 5 minutes
Instruction — 50 minutes
- The Five Step Exit Model for leaving abusive relationships
- The Five Step Exit stages
- Therapist’s tasks in contemplation
- Examples of therapeutic contemplation practices
- Therapist’s role in preparation
- Multidimensional issues in preparation
- Examples of preparation practices
- Therapist’s role in action/execution
- Therapist’s role in supporting client her partner reacts
- Therapist’s role in recovery
- Examples of recovery practices
Questions and answers — 10 minutes
Risks and Limitations
- The accuracy and utility of the statements included in this presentation are based on referenced materials from reliable sources that are accessible and obtainable by all.
- limitation of the content presented herein is that the results of execution have not been measured, therefore, expectation of outcome is not predictable.
- It is presumed that professionals executing the guidelines presented herein will apply such holding to the precise standards of their professional code of ethics, to reduce risk of ethical violations. As in all therapeutic interventions that may provoke emotional triggering, the professional may be required to perform risk assessment for suicidality, homicidality or other incident requiring emergency psychiatric services.
Here’s a preview of this course:
If your client needs to leave a psychopath, narcissist or other toxic partner, use this structured, five step model to help him or her escape. In this course, you’ll learn to prepare your client to develop a support team, ensure personal safety, and respond appropriately to pushback from the partner.
The Five Step Exit: Tools you need to help clients leave a psychopath, narcissist or other toxic partner – $80