lf2

Love and Exploitation, Part 1: Recognizing the exploitative relationship and its impact on the intimate partner
5 out of 5 stars
4 star 0
3 star 0
2 star 0
1 star 0

LF Slider Loveand Exploitation

About this course

Your client says his or her partner “swept me off my feet” or “had so much in common with me” or “seemed too good to be true.” Yet your client is feeling confusion and self-doubt, and presents with symptoms of depression, anxiety and even PTSD. So is your client experiencing a personal crisis — or exhibiting a normal reaction to a personality disordered partner?

This webinar teaches you to spot when the real problem may not be your client, but your client’s relationship. In Part 1 you’ll learn to recognize the signs of possible antisocial, narcissistic, or other personality disorders in your client’s description of his or her partner — and how these individuals typically seduce and exploit their targets. You’ll learn that individuals with exploitative personality disorders do not have the ability to engage in normal emotional intimacy, and what that means for your client’s involvement in the relationship.

Highlights

  • How clients who are involved in a romantic relationship with an exploiter typically present, and how they describe what they feel.
  •  The DSM-5 diagnostic criteria for antisocial, borderline, histrionic and narcissistic personality disorders, and comorbid psychopathic traits.
  • Why, in the beginning of a relationship, a person who turns out to be an exploiter seems so irresistible, and why your client may have overlooked red flags.

 About the instructor

Mary Ann Glynn, LCSW, CHT, is a licensed clinical social worker and an expert on how disordered individuals affect their romantic partners. In her private psychotherapy practice, she finds that many of her clients are stuck in destructive relationships, and helps them gain clarity and recover their lost selves. Ms. Glynn identified the approaches and relationship sequences of these exploiters on their targeted partners, and the reactions to victimization, often veiled and subtle, by the partners. She understands the influence of trauma on the targets’ lives, and uses techniques such as EDMR and mindfulness to help them overcome the traumatic impact. Ms. Glynn developed the Mind Warriorâ„• app, an adjunctive daily mindfulness and resourcing tool, to teach clients more empowered responses to PTSD and other emotional, relational, addictive or compulsive triggers.

Ms. Glynn earned her MSW from the Rutgers School of Social Work, and her BSW from Livingston College. She is certified in disaster response crises counseling, divorce mediation, hypnotherapy, clinical supervision and EMDR therapy. She specializes in PTSD and trauma, addictions, mental illness, ADHD, couples, partners in exploitative/IPV relationships, anxiety and depression. The modalities she employs include EMDR, hypnotherapy, somatic experiencing, CBT, focused mindful tracking, and communications dialogue for couples.

Cost and credits

The cost for this course is $49 for two hours of instruction. Once you purchase the course, you can access it online for six months.

This two-part series offers 4 hours of continuing education credit for mental health professionals. Both parts must be completed to receive credit. For more information on credits, click here.

Mental health professionals who complete 8 Lovefraud CE credits are eligible for a free 12-month listing in the Lovefraud Professional Resources Guide.

No commercial support was provided to Lovefraud Continuing Education or the instructor for this program.

Learning objectives

This workshop will enable mental health professionals to:

  1. Describe a client’s distinguishing symptoms of small  “t” and large “T” trauma (of PTSD) from emotional, physical, sexual, and deceit abuses due to a relationship with an exploitative disordered individual.
  2. Analyze specific exploitative manipulations common to disordered individuals as relationships evolve, and abuse manifestations on clients.
  3. Explain the cognitive, emotional and behavioral coping mechanisms clients develop to survive in the relationships, and how the self is submerged.
  4. Assess where criteria of personality disorders in the DSM-5 overlap or are differentiated from criteria in psychopathy research in order to recognize a distinguishing set of diagnostic criteria.
  5. Explain how the traits, goals and perceptions of an exploitative disordered personality measure against traits necessary for emotional intimacy, and implications for clients in navigating a romantic relationships with these individuals.

Program Agenda

 Instruction — 55 minutes

  • Relationships of harm
  • Problems with recognizing exploitation
  • What is an exploitative relationship?
  • Defining the traits of an exploiter in a relationship
  • Cluster B personality disorders
    • Antisocial personality disorder
    • Borderline personality disorder
    • Histrionic personality disorder
    • Narcissistic personality disorder
  • The exploiter in relationships
  • Core traits of the exploiter
  • Comorbid psychopathic traits
  • Emotions exploiters can feel
  • The grand seduction
    • The irresistible presentation
    • Partner’s description of romance
  • Early characteristic red flags
  • Early behavioral red flags
  • Traits of partners they target
    • Vulnerabilities they can exploit
    • Mistaken beliefs and perceptions of partner

Break — 5 minutes

Instruction — 50 minutes

  • Requirements for a healthy a relationship
  • The role of relationship conflict
  • Why healthy relating cannot happen in these relationships
  • Exploiter’s expectations for the relationship
  • Covers hidden from the partner
  • Inside the exploitative relationship
    • Responses of the exploiter to commitment and emotional intimacy
    • Verbal manipulation in conflict
    • Behavioral manipulations in conflict
    • Making the partner forget
  • Emotional abuse
  • Physical abuse
  • Sexual abuse
  • Abusive impacts of deceit
  • How the partner copes in the destructive relationship
    • Making sense of the behavior
    • Building of small “t” trauma
    • Loss of self in small “t” trauma
    • Physiological impact
    • Discovery of large “T” trauma
    • Reverse relationship review
    • Post-discovery consequences partners may be facing
  • How to recognize the exploited client in a clinical setting
    • Partner’s initial presentation
    • Descriptions of self-experience
    • Descriptions of the relationship
  • What the partner will need to heal

Questions and answers — 10 minutes

Here’s a sample of this program:

Therapists: Does your client’s romantic partner “seem too good to be true?” It may be a warning sign of possible antisocial, narcissistic or other personality disorders. In this course, you’ll learn to spot the warning signs.

Sign up for this course now

Student Reviews

5 out of 5
5 star 1
4 star 0
3 star 0
2 star 0
1 star 0
Share your thoughts with other users Write a course review

Top Student Reviews

  1. By John Kelly, CSW, CAS, CFE on September 11, 2017
    This is an excellent course that will give the clinician an eye opening experience into the mind of exploiters and master manipulators. This course will also help the clinician to better understand and to counsel the traumatized intimate partner in this relationship.

Send this to a friend